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People that lie regularly are good at it. They regularly fool the average person, and the average high level leader who also does it. But if you’re actually honest and reasonably smart or experienced (with a leaning toward social intelligence), you can discern liars fairly easily…which includes altruistic social climbers since their fundamental lie is “I’m doing this for the world”, when actually they are doing it for themselves.

Asking the questions you mention is a great medium from which to make these judgements.

I think also trying to be collegial with them and lowering the formality and artifice so they open up is a great way to get inside to the true person. Interviewing others from their past is also helpful.

There’s something about being a true believer, a believer in the work required for humanity’s good future, that is hard to fake and if you have it you recognize it.

You have it.

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